Friday, August 18, 2006

"I can see the pain in you.. I can see the love in you.. but fighting all the demons will take time" - Dishwalla


Why did God give me a penis and a brain?
The hormones of a man do not compliment the wavelength of an over analytical mind. The world revolves solely around superficiality. Fame and fortune are farces.

Note one common pattern through the aging of the millennium. Modern day poets no longer pen lyrics that declare undying love, songs about heart aches and breaks are hugely mass produced. They accommodate the perception of today. They make only one statement – Love no longer exists.

I always said, and you can quote, “Love is a hybrid of emotions and a network of deeds.” However, all’s lost. It used to be the men grasping the reigns to the way of the heart, now; the Queen of Hearts is the highest card.

Bishan Park on a Friday night was exceptionally unruffled. Tranquility overwhelmed me. The usually hotspot for lovers was no longer. I did a simple test and forwarded a sms to a few women from different backgrounds, asking how they would spend their Friday. The response was unanimous- Clubbing.

These women included ones who’re single and also attached, engaged and married. Surprisingly (or perhaps not), they weren’t with their partners. I carried on walking into the serene night, as the only sounds were emitted from the occasional passing vehicle. In the stillness of nighttime, one odd rumbling of the engine was heard from a vaguely familiar car.

I edged closer as I recognized that it was the same, run-down, car from a few days back. I was walking home at the exact same time and taking the exact same route. I did not, could not, forget that car.

Two people were getting it hot and heavy in the car. Today, it was a different girl. I didn’t peep. Well, I didn’t have to. The windows weren’t fogged up enough and the most obvious reason: the second girl was more developed then the previous one.

Look around you. Ask around you. How many Asian women have non-Asian boyfriends/lovers? Would you believe that all Asian men make lousy lovers? And this drove Asian women to non-Asian men? At this very juncture, you might be wondering why? What is lacking in Asians that non-Asians have? It’s straightforward. No two ways about it.

“I’m saying this for all men, not just myself. When a guy sees a hot woman on the streets, the first thought that will come to their mind would be, ‘I want to sleep with her.’”
– Anonymous

This statement was heard off a radio during my stroll home. It really got me wondering about life, love and lust. I believe that love is neither a hybrid of emotions nor a network of deeds anymore. People are confused between love and lust. That very same confusion has led to belief. Belief forms reality. Reality is what you believe it to be.

Now…
Love is simply lust.
Love is fuck.

19 comments:

Anonymous said...

Love is simply an illusion that drives human beings to do things even stupider than the ones they are already doing in their daily lives.

"It can't be love for there is no true love."

-The White Stripes, 'The Union Forever'

Anonymous said...

喜欢是浅浅的爱
爱是深深的喜欢

Even after all that I've been through, I still have that tiny weeny bit of faith in love.

U should have some hope for it too.

Love will only be lust and fuck, if u want it to be.

Love can be everything else that u want it to be too.

Wei said...

If you want to make your kinda love a cheap fuck, nobody could stop you.

It could've been different, but be honest with yourself, are you going that direction?

glowbubble said...

No matter what you say.. How you say it..

Being the optimistic-sugar-spice-everything-nice-disney-baby that I am..

I'll still believe in happily ever after.

Unknown said...

wei: i'm not lookin for a cheap fuck. you should know what i'm looking for.

everyone else claims of love's existence but i beg to differ. Someone(please)prove me wrong

cheers
Will

gen said...

I'd still like to know I am living with miracles and surprises, thou I loathe to sense uncertainty. Do you really wish for love to be just base on, lust thou they may be inter-related and inseparable.

This, is all up to you.

Wei said...

I know what you are looking for, that is why I say you are going the wrong direction.

Anonymous said...

Love
1 Corinthians 13

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.


Do u still love if he or she sick, have chronic disease or disabled after accident or operation ?

Do u still love if he or she not handsome or not pretty anymore ?

Do u still love if he or she grow old?

Do u still holding his or her hands when u are old?

Do u still love if you discover his or her mistakes or weakness?

Do u think of forever to be together with he or she no matter how and even start thinking of the marriage?

U can find wat is love when u try to answer these question..

The world now changed, everything is different,towards love , attitude, interpretation also different, thinking different, minset different,


Choosing partner and friends,
if u join those ppl who does not know how to love (seriously), then u also dunno wat is love (seriously)
"Influence" is wat kind of ppl u mix with and u will become wat kind of person and have the same thought.

Love is not self- seeking for personal satisfaction, proud,enjoyment but is thinking for the person sake

Lust is opposite to love and can be controlled if want to

~QQ~

Anonymous said...

Then just wat the hell are you looking for?

I supposed only sex.....
Think it over....

AND

Correct me if I'm wrong...ya?

Unknown said...

hl: if i'm only looking for sex, what'd i go through all the trouble to diss the people who are?

go figure

Anonymous said...

So wat if you diss the ppl who are?

Are you sure u're not one of them?
Are you very sure?

Okiez...
I got nothing more to comment...

U take care~~

Jess said...

Hmmm... hope i can prove u wrong..
I guess LOVE will only exist if u find the right person to share it with.

Similar to your friend, i still have a little hope in love though i've countless relationships that i can't even start, thus i've became a skeptic to true love.
(But!!! That doesn't stop me from waiting for 'The One' to arrive. Ha!)

"What is true love?"
I asked myself very often.
My 101 answers contradicts pretty much.

So~ i shall give you one of the positive one.

As long as you're happy being with that special girl and you wish to see more of her, without any thoughts of wanting her to be on your bed..
I guess that's LOVE.

Ha. Hope i ain't talking rubbish.
Take care!!!

glowbubble said...

I hope that after reading all the comments you've received (esp the ones by Sheena, qq , wei and jess ) you'd change your perception about Love.

Yes, its true that there are people who view : Love = Lust

But I still believe that there's someone out there for each and everyone of us (yes, including the rotten spoilers for love). Someone whom you'll see happiness and love in. and not Lust. And when you finally find / when she finds you, you'll see that love is all about mutual understanding and learning and loving more about each other everyday.

I may not be religous, but through what I've read and heard, most of the religions are rooted in Love.

Remember what you told me about girls adapting to their partners and their partners letting their world revolve around the girl?

I totally agree with that. :)

Give Love another chance. Don't be such a gloomy bear.

rach. said...

Love hasn't changed. The times have.
Love is and will remain as steadfast as it was right from the start.
No one really works through anything anymore, all we want are quick fixes, easy solutions.
Just because people's perceptions have changed and they compromise on love are you going to go their way or stay one of the few?
Seems like you've already made up your mind? Or is this just you playing stubborn?

Unknown said...

Well...
everyone seems to think that i've gone "to the dark side"...

just to straighten things up a little...
i'm flagellating those people who are.
i'm still old school.
i'm still Will...

Wei said...

To prove you are still old schooled Will, haha.. scold fluently in hokkien vulgarities for the next 2mins and look in the mirror!

=P

Jess said...

Ha! I can't imagine..
Goodness.. LOL.

gelatogirl said...

Love is the willingness to make things work between 2 people...it doesn't have to be manifested physically. You know, when most girls say they wanna see you do the little things, these little things are actions that show them they truly mean something to you. That's why girls fuss about it.

But, these girls also have a problem la...they should open their mouth and SPEAK UP! Don't pretend pretend that everything is ok then later drop a bomb...and don't keep asking the guy if he loves you. If he doesn't do things that in your opinion means he cares for you, HE JUST ISN'T THAT INTO YOU!!!

And will, bottom line, love exists...different forms of, different ways...doesn't mean its non-existant la.

Anonymous said...

was lookin thru ur blog...
hmmm... guess love is onli wat it wil be if u wan it to be...
beeen hurted but stil guess there shd b someone out there who wun do e same...